These are some quotes that I quoted back in 2005:
"爱情的可爱与可恨就在这里:他的心态会改变。当他愈来愈喜爱她,
觉得跟她在一起比他预期的更美好舒服、再对不过,于是希望这种日子可以长久过下去
,就算心里还抗拒着天长地久,总也希望两人的生
活可以延续得更久一些,至少久到发现彼此有难以忍受的缺点,再也
无法一起生活下去为止。"
"如今又再见面,我们应该认命,我们不能再分手下去了,那只是折
磨。与其折磨彼此,还不如折磨爱情,把它磨得面目全非,然后才
能死心,真正结束。"
"我们这段感情势必要经营得比别人困难。我们没有办法长期相聚、
互相照顾,时间与空间都是耗磨掉这份感情的不利因素。但我们一
连分手了两次都没成功,只觉得一次比一次更遗憾,并没有感觉到
任何的解脱感,事情只住更坏的方向演变而去,而没有结束。那时
我便已在想,就算分隔两地,也不表示非分手不可,也许我们应
该试着再一同走下去,直到有人决定放弃,就此打住,那么我们之
间才会有真正结束的一天。"
"爱情,是一场耗磨的过程吧?相爱了之后,等的就是谁先不再爱
谁。虽然口口声声说着天长地久,但实情就是这样,就只是任等待
不爱了的那天到来而已。"
~我的藍 by 席娟
我希望我有一天也能有那種勇氣.....
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Almost 3 years later....the result of my relationship went towards letting go, instead of taking each other's hands and continue on going.
Looking back at the good or bad.... I gave it my all. It was in the end that he let go. And I just let him let go since I was so tired of fighting to stay. It is funny how during stressful times, these are the things that I start to think about.
Hopefully after the finals I will begin to think less morbid thoughts.
Good luck to those who are currently struggling to cram all that final material into their brains!
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